I`m considering if i should marry now or after my child turns 1mth.. Because from pressuring from my mum to consideration.. now would be a better choice..

The pros for ROM-ing now:
- Alot of applications can be done at hospital
- Applying for 1 or 2 room hdb
- Baby bonus shorter waiting time
- Easier opening of cdc account, no need to rush rom after bb is 1mth to rom as i using baby bonus for cord blood banking

The Cons for ROM-ing now:
- I feel so fat and i`m so fat. i want to look best on my once a life time thing..
- I cant afford to engage a professional photographer AND videographer to catch down our ROM Vows exchange and kisses..
- Mum`s pressuring me to get married asap as she wants "face" and keep harping about family nucleus..

What do you think i should do?

Thanks for seeing my longggg rant