I guess majority SG teen mums are hopeless already.. I was blog hopping yesterday and see alot of teen mums blog.. There is one there act pai kia and going out everyday, wheres the baby? Naturally her responsibility become OTHERS responsibility.
A few like those gamers, i dont know how the hell they find the time to game, her baby is just 3mths and im sure not much difference from mine and i dont even have time to game now except for occasionally 10mins when hubby back home to help me pacify Rislin when she cries.So i presume must be.. MUMMY BABY CRY LIAO I PLAYING GAME.. Enuff said.
Another kind is leaving their not even 2months old baby with parents while she goes overseas with her husband? And keep in mind that shes only 17 or 18 with TWO kids. I mean your 1yr+ girl i understand.. But your not even 2months baby? Shouldnt you be giving her your best care and the best breast milk? And her husband is only going NS this year.. so i take it that her parents are full time paying for them both? Since your parents is still supporting you, shouldnt after your first kid you should be closing your legs?
Maybe i dont judge on the pay wise of her hubby but i cant even bear to leave my baby alone for 30mins.. How come she can go overseas when her baby is not even 2 months? And still got the cheek to say she misses them? And where is the best AS A MUM she should be doing?
Occasionally leaving your child with your mum to enjoy is ok.But most of the blogs im seeing, wa camwhore self, camwhore with sis, camwhore with frens. WHERE IS YOUR KID? Eaten by big legged monster ar -_- To me they are like 100% go out but only 10% or less bring kid along only.And some more power.. Baby sick still can go out. WOW.. Shouldnt you be taking care of your sick child instead and you can fan xing to go out while your child is sick?
Most of the teen mums which i blog hopped are VERY irresponsible i would say.. Not saying im a saint or what. But the baby is theirs, they born it, its THEIR responsibility.. Not others.. The only few responsible i would say is Amulet Mummy and a few others i didnt list.. But I applaud her courage and selfless as a mum.I find her respectable and is my "idol".
Another case of hopeless mum which i found from my friend` s friendster,I will not post her picture up even if i blurred it as respect. She was carrying her less than 4mths or 5mths the most baby in a arcade. The head is not even stable, and shes at a arcade where the noises is VERY LOUD.
So what is she doing there posing the picture so happily?To make her daughter ear deaf? Who will suffer if it affects her hearing..? The girl le, not the mum..
Another is a old people rant.. i know i will become old one day but they were abusing their rights.I was eating at food court and its crowded. I sat at a table, its a long table so they have 6 chairs. I sat the the most left, and leaving 2 seats on my right. Opposite me sits one lady at the most left and the space there even my hubby cant squeeze in and the other 2 chairs are vacant but because the other side is blocked and its close together the chairs, thus one cant even sit inside.
This old woman came and sit next to me without asking. Nvm, i gave her seat as i thought she only one person. She placed her handbag on the other chair beside me for hubby. I thinking nvm, later hubby come back tell her to move. She saw my hubby took food for me to eat and i started eating as i was too hungry.
Then her husband came. Sit at the seat where my hubby shud be sitting. Then i asked them erm where should my hubby be sitting if u sit there? The woman got the cheek to point the opposite seat. Then i asked her.. Dont you think the space is too small? Because that space is too narrow and small to even squeeze in unless hubby crawl to the other side =_=
Then she stood up and started shouting at me and say how can you say a old person(lao ren). Then say if u want the seat u shud have put something wad, u win la u win la.. Wa say until i in wrong and even the husband join in the shouting at me. And first place she didnt even ask before she sit? Secondly, she saw my hubby brought my food over and talking to me. Thirdly i win wad? Got $$ ar?
No, im not asking for bashing or bashing others.. just need to rant.. if its offends you just Alt+F4.. Or if you`re one of those mums above.. dont even bother bash me.. zz
Enough ranting and this is the false crying video i promised..
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