I realised its lack of updates and i been too lazy too.. Right now as of progress, i bought healthy sleep habits, happy child by Marc Weissbluth,M.D. but unable to put to use till i move house, it is ALMOST like CIO method but yet its not and its a VERY good book according to what i read.But it wont be practical for now, i tried the method where i can only let her cry till 1hr and i have to attend to her if she doesnt stop within 10+ i got a good ole scolding by my mum and EX dad saying im a lousy mum, whatever!

Im suffering now anyway, whats more 1mth+? It`ll only be more traumatising for poor rislin to be trained in a unfamilar environment with a whole new method sigh