So this is like my 2nd or 3rd time out with liris and rislin..

I get very irritated with people commenting things like liris is so young why you bring him out, he's still too young to be brought out, he should stay at home till full month, he can only come out after his first month..

First although liris is only 2weeks old now, I would like to shout, shut up! Not everyone is so lucky to have a mum or mum in law to help with 2kids while I need to run errands. And if I tell my mum or husband to run the errand they would buy the wrong things, yes they ran errands for me before..and if I don't go out and buy the things won't automatically fly to me, plus I only bring them out after polyclinic visits or dr visits or when I have appointments, I don't go out unless necessary.

And if you want to see my baby, ask about my baby, go ahead but this is my 2nd baby and Im a responsible mum who knows what she's doing. There's no need for the hundred and million comment of telling me that he's too young to be brought out.

Are you trying to tell me to put liris or both my babies at home ALONE so that i can run errands?isn't that even more irresponsible?

And my confinement isn't confinement anyway.. I still bath my two babies, do housework, do the dogs, take care of liris by my own and rislin occassionally gets handled by my mum and husband...

Arugh i can't explain how much more irritated I am by their comments because they don't understand what it's like being a super mum who has to do everything herself with very very minimal help because her own mum won't even look after both rislin and liris for 1hr so she can go to a "further place" for dinner for her fravoite prata..

Not that I'm majorly complaining over no help but I'm complaining of those comments that I'm so sick of hearing.. Anyway If I rant anymore the whole page would be full.. So ending here not even including experiencing idiots using elbow to try and knock you at crowded places even though it's so obvious u are carrying a newborn carefully avoiding them as u need to get pass them as it's a one way!

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